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Tayari Jones's avatar

Congratulations! You are on a roll.

HelenRLittle's avatar

Such interesting and relatable truths.

Bridgett M. Davis's avatar

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Danyel Smith's avatar

this is the best thing, and the best news, ever. congratulations, Bridgett 🀩

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Andrea D. Price's avatar

Excellent essay! Congratulations on the upcoming event!

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Michael A. Gonzales's avatar

I really enjoyed this piece, thank you. I will say that creative men often face similar obstacles when it comes to finding a partner that has patience and understanding. Some people love how it sounds to say "my mate is a writer," but get an attitude when you actually have to write.

Bridgett M. Davis's avatar

I’m so sure! I’d love to see a piece from you on this.

Michael A. Gonzales's avatar

LOL...I'm gonna leave that alone. You said it perfectly.

Rachel Leeke Alexis's avatar

Thank you for the excellent read. Congrats on the screening.

I love this question, "Is the pursuit of our own aspirations and the role of those who support us a linked responsibility?" because it points to the importance of women feeling secure in their identity as an artist/creative before committing to a relationship. That self-identity then becomes a natural part of the relationship no different than other routines kept - I visit my mom on Sundays, I get my nails done Tuesday evenings, I write in the morning before dawn. Self-ownership has definitely been more acceptable for women over the generations and the women in your life are lucky to have you rooting for them in ways others may be lacking or absent.

Sam Bailey's avatar

Thank you for this. I'm always fortified thinking of women like Kathleen Collins, Gayl Jones, my mother, you...all of us trying to hold onto our ambitions in the face of everything telling you not to.

Just got tix to see the screening in Chicago, so looking forward to it.

Bridgett M. Davis's avatar

Thx for getting tickets! The screening includes a beautiful film by Kathleen Collins’ granddaughter, in tribute to the grandmother she never knew.

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Celeste's avatar

This article felt like a hug, Sis. Is there a registration link? I live in Chicago.

Celeste's avatar

See you soon πŸ’š

Bridgett M. Davis's avatar

I won’t be there unfortunately; I’m in NY. But I’m glad you plan to go!

Celeste's avatar

I still want to go. Your piece resonated deeply. Thank you for sharing πŸ’š

Celeste's avatar

I really enjoyed the selection of films shown tonight. Yours reminded me, not only of the 90’s, and a younger me…but how much I have had to fight not to continue to be her. Thank you for your work and allowing us to be a witness πŸ’š

Bridgett M. Davis's avatar

Thank you for supporting the series! I'm glad my film resonated with you; it's a constant struggle for most women to not become Michelle. Our life's work, in some ways....

Lilliana MΓ©ndez-Soto's avatar

Thanks for sharing these stories. It was hard in those days, and still is for women not to be derailed by relationships and pursue our artistic dreams.